Skip to main content

Posts

Divorce and Marry Me Again

Second Marriage? Yes, But With The Same Person. What if I told you… the secret to a great marriage isn’t finding someone new. It's hitting renew with the same person. Sounds ridiculous, right? Like willingly watching the same movie twice but expecting a different ending. But hear me out. Meet Spark & Lilly. Two perfectly imperfect humans. Met during college, fell in love over cheap coffee and stolen glances. Fast forward → got married. Fast forward a bit more → got tired. Conversations shrank. Fights grew. Socks on the floor became World War 3 material. By Year 4, they’re basically co-workers who share bills and argue over where to order dinner. One fine night: Lilly (dead serious): "Maybe we should just get divorced." Spark (even more serious) : "Cool. But then, can we marry each other again?" Lilly (confused): "What?" Spark: "Look, we clearly suck at ‘Version 1.’ Let’s uninstall, debug, and launch Version 2. Second marriage, same people,...

this international woMEN's day - time for some truth

Do Women Really Need All These Perks? Let’s be honest - sometimes it feels like women have it easier, doesn’t it? They get maternity leave, reserved seats, diversity quotas, and women-only spaces. Everywhere you look, there are policies, initiatives, and campaigns dedicated to supporting women. Meanwhile, men? Nobody hands them anything. If a man struggles, he's told to “man up.” If he fails, he's judged - harshly. But if a woman struggles? People rush to soften the blow - “Oh, she must be going through a tough time. Oh, poor thing, she must be struggling.” Think about it ▸  Now, men have to compete in the workplace with a system that favors women in the name of "diversity." ▸ Now, men are expected to be "equal partners" at home, sharing chores and childcare, when for centuries, men were the breadwinners. ▸  Now, men can’t even joke or speak freely without being labeled “problematic” or “misogynistic. And let’s be real - hasn’t society done enough for women ...

Advertisements: Feeding on Your Fears

"You think you're making decisions? Nah. Ads already made them for you." You walk into a store, fully convinced you’re a rational human being making smart choices. But five minutes later, you’re holding a $30 face wash with activated charcoal something you didn’t plan on buying. Why? Because some ad convinced you that your regular face wash isn’t good enough and you need this mysterious black magic to fix it. Or maybe you’re scrolling on Instagram, minding your business, and suddenly - BAM! - an ad pops up saying, "This revolutionary pillow will fix your terrible sleep and probably your entire life." Wait, what? My sleep is terrible? Now you're thinking about it. You have been feeling tired lately. And this pillow? It’s NASA-approved, designed by sleep experts, and on sale for the next 15 minutes. Your brain: "You need this, or you will suffer forever." And just like that, your credit card is out. See what just happened? You weren’t planning to buy...

The Voice Inside Your Head

There’s someone in your life you can never escape. Someone who knows everything about you - your embarrassing childhood moments, your cringiest texts, the exact number of times you’ve rewatched your comfort show instead of doing something productive. That someone? The voice inside your head. You know the one. The little narrator who: Encourages you to chase your dreams - then convinces you to abandon them at the first sign of failure. Tells you to eat healthy but then whispers, “Fries won’t kill you. Probably.” Makes you rehearse fake arguments at 3 AM, winning every battle that never actually happened. We all have this voice. Some days, it’s a motivational coach. Other days, it’s an overthinking devil on steroids. But here’s the thing, it never shuts up. It’s always there, always watching, always commenting. And the worst part? It knows exactly how to mess with you.  One second, it hypes you up - “You’re unstoppable!”  and the next, it drags you down -  “Bu t… what if yo...

If You Keep Carrying Old Bricks, You Build an Old House

Probably everyone, at some point in their life, has dreamt of building a home for themselves. You work hard for years, save money, take loans, and finally begin construction with a new ray of hope. But imagine this - one day, you stand in front of your half-built house. The foundation looks uneven, the walls seem fragile, and the bricks in your hands feel chipped, worn out, and heavy. You glance around - there are newer, stronger bricks available. Yet, you hesitate. Instead of picking them up, you keep stacking the old ones. Why? Because you don’t want to start over. Because you don’t want to waste the money spent so far. Because you fear that all your effort will go in vain. Because tearing it all down feels like admitting defeat. Because rebuilding from scratch feels overwhelming. Because even broken familiarity feels safer than the unknown. It sounds absurd, doesn’t it? Yet, this is exactly what many of us do in life. We carry old bricks - past regrets, failed relationships, outdate...

Change - Matter - People - Priorities

Life is an intricate puzzle, isn’t it? Every day, we navigate through countless emotions, experiences, and decisions. But when you pause and reflect, four words often seem to shape the essence of it all. These aren’t just random words - I believe they are the invisible threads that weave our lives together. Alone, each carries its own significance: Change represents the inevitable flow of our life, the transformations we embrace (or resist) as we move forward. Matter reflects what holds value to us, what makes us pause and say, "This is worth my time, my energy, my love." People are the connections that ground us, challenge us, or uplift us through this mysterious journey we call LIFE. Priorities guide our choices, silently shaping the course of our lives. But here’s the beauty of these words, they don’t exist in isolation. When you combine them, their meaning shifts, creating entirely new phenomena and emotions: People Change : A bittersweet truth we all must learn as we...

We are Designed to be Different

John wasn’t expecting a visitor that evening, let alone one from the future. Yet, there they stood - an older, wiser version of him. The moment he saw them, he knew it was himself. The same face, the same eyes, but with a calmness he’d never known. Time travel seemed absurd, yet here it was, standing before him, holding a lesson he desperately needed to learn. “Why are you here?” John asked, both amazed and unsettled. The future self smiled knowingly. “Because you’re caught in a trap, John. A trap of constant comparison. It’s stealing your joy, your peace, and the essence of who you are. I’m here to help you break free.” “Comparison?” John echoed, confused. “Yes,” the future self replied. “You’re like a fish comparing yourself to a bird. You’re perfect in water, but you’ll drown trying to fly. Each person is like a unique key designed to open a specific door. Comparing yourself to another key will only leave you lost.” John frowned, still unsure. “But what if their story is better than...