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We are Designed to be Different

John wasn’t expecting a visitor that evening, let alone one from the future. Yet, there they stood - an older, wiser version of him. The moment he saw them, he knew it was himself. The same face, the same eyes, but with a calmness he’d never known. Time travel seemed absurd, yet here it was, standing before him, holding a lesson he desperately needed to learn. “Why are you here?” John asked, both amazed and unsettled. The future self smiled knowingly. “Because you’re caught in a trap, John. A trap of constant comparison. It’s stealing your joy, your peace, and the essence of who you are. I’m here to help you break free.” “Comparison?” John echoed, confused. “Yes,” the future self replied. “You’re like a fish comparing yourself to a bird. You’re perfect in water, but you’ll drown trying to fly. Each person is like a unique key designed to open a specific door. Comparing yourself to another key will only leave you lost.” John frowned, still unsure. “But what if their story is better than...

Alone vs Lonely

Being alone can be liberating, but feeling lonely can be exhausting. From my 25 years of life, what I’ve understood is that a person who is alone may or may not feel lonely. Solitude can be a time for self-reflection, peace, and personal growth. On the other hand, loneliness often strikes when one is surrounded by people but still feels disconnected. If you ever get such a feeling, trust me - it’s a signal to pause and introspect. My Journey with Being Alone Growing up as a single child, I spent much of my childhood alone. At home, I didn’t have siblings to share my time with, and we had few relatives in my city. Initially, it didn’t bother me; I was content in my own little world. But as I grew older, I began to notice a void - a longing for connection that crept in and brought moments of distress. Being alone wasn’t always a negative experience; I often enjoyed solitude in many ways. I relished meals alone at restaurants, went on solo movie dates, took trips, and even hiked by myself...